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Being the Solution

Darel Rutherford
Review by: Aytən Həsənova01 October 20261 min read
A book in the «law of attraction» tradition that presents getting rich as a choice of a «state of being». Its core idea — change how you relate to your situation and stop seeing yourself as a victim — occasionally looks useful. But the book treats poverty as an entirely personal choice, offers only reader testimonials as evidence and, most dangerously, its health chapter says «being healthy is a matter of choice» and tells stories implying cancer goes away when you decide it should. For these reasons we don't recommend it.
Who Is This Book For?
Good Fit
  • Fans of «The Secret»-style law-of-attraction books looking for more of the same
  • Readers wanting a simple framework to question a victim mindset
  • Readers able to approach its claims critically
Not a Fit
  • Anyone facing a serious illness, and their families
  • People in financial hardship looking for practical money advice
  • Readers expecting evidence-based psychology or economics
How Readers Rate It
Readability 3.6/5 Easy
Practical value 2.1/5 Low
Reliability 1.7/5 Low
40 voters
Chapters 1–2, the «Power Stance» and «Fixing Your Health»
Read: the translator's prefaces, Chapter 1 («Poverty Reflects Your Inner State») and the beginning of Chapter 2, the steps of the «power stance» from Chapter 11 and the beginning of Chapter 16 («Fixing Your Health») — about 15% of the book.

The book opens with reader testimonials: Delores, broke for two years, lands a songwriting contract a week after using the Power Stance; Sherry is freed from a year of migraines; Maria grows her massage business by a third in a month. The author adds at once that these aren't miracles, just the natural result of choosing a new «state of being». None of these stories can be verified, and all of the book's «evidence» is of this kind.

Chapter one's thesis is in its title: poverty reflects your inner state, not your income. Rutherford describes years of believing «nobody loves me» until a change of perspective made it possible to accept love, and from this draws a general rule: whatever is missing from your life, you have «rejected». The text includes lines like «the rich attract money as a magnet attracts metal» and «the poor have a negative polarity that pushes money away». It is a worldview that ignores structural causes — unemployment, illness, discrimination — entirely.

Chapter two tells the author's own story: about three months after reading Hill, Rutherford decided becoming a millionaire was a choice, then forgot the goal, and on checking two years later was «halfway to my second million». The conclusion: «becoming a millionaire is simply a matter of choice» and «the only difference between you and me is that I chose to be rich and you didn't». Being busy growing a business is mentioned in passing, but the book consistently downplays effort, markets and luck.

The Power Stance is a three-step, roughly three-minute practice: go to a peaceful place in your mind, picture your life with the problem solved and feel those emotions, then thank God or your «higher self». As relaxation and positive visualisation under stress, the method itself is harmless. The problem is that the author calls it «a very simple solution to all problems».

The most troubling part is the health chapter. It opens with the story of a dental hygienist said to have recovered from brain cancer and paralysis by «deciding not to die». The author writes that «being healthy is a matter of choice» and sets out to show that «diseases called incurable can be cured if the person decides». In another example the author asks an employee preparing for a bone marrow transplant, «Why do you need bone marrow cancer?» This approach blames patients and is dangerous. No thinking exercise can replace medical treatment in serious illness.

There is a potentially useful layer: questioning the victim role, writing down what you want, taking responsibility in relationships. But these ideas exist with evidence and in safer form elsewhere — in books on cognitive behavioural therapy, for example. The translation is heavy too, with capitalised terms like «STATE OF BEING» making the text tiring.

Reading Experience
  • Plain language and many worksheets
  • Summaries and questions at the end of chapters
  • A motivational layer of reader stories
Content Warning
Claims that cancer and serious illness can be cured «by deciding»Presents poverty and illness as personal choices, blaming victimsPromotes network marketing as the best type of income
If You Liked This
Think and Grow RichNapoleon Hill

The author's inspiration and the genre's classic

Feeling GoodDavid D. Burns

An evidence-based approach to changing thinking habits

The Psychology of MoneyMorgan Housel

A realistic, sensible take on our relationship with money

Spoiler
How does this part end?
⚠️ The «power stance»

The «power stance» is a three-step practice of about three minutes: go to a quiet place in your mind, imagine your life as if the problem were solved and live those feelings, then give thanks to God or to the «higher self». As relaxation and optimistic visualisation at a moment of stress, the technique itself is harmless; the problem is that the author calls it «a very simple solution for all problems».

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