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Taboo: The Book of Womanizing

In English: Taboo: The Book of Womanizing (Tabu — Hovardalığın Kitabı)
M. Mehmet Ünver
Review by: Cavid Mehdiyev12 October 20261 min read
A social-psychological novel set in Ankara: the limping locksmith Can, his womanizing, boastful friend Samet and Ayla between them. Its strongest qualities are the heroes' bold monologues on love, disability and «taboo» and the lively details of the minibus and shop world. Its weaknesses are the characters' long philosophical speeches, repeated scenes, the crudeness of its attitude to women and a dramatic ending that arrives hurriedly.
Who Is This Book For?
Good Fit
  • Readers of Turkish social-psychological novels who want long inner monologues about love, loneliness and social pressure
  • Anyone curious about city life in Ankara: minibuses, shops and shanty neighbourhoods
  • Readers who want the disabled person's right to love and the idea of «taboo» treated in a philosophical tone
Not a Fit
  • Readers who cannot tolerate sexual content and coarse language: the book has several explicit scenes and demeaning remarks about women
  • Anyone who wants a short, tight plot: the novel stretches through repeated dialogues
  • Readers who expect strong, independent women: the women are mostly seen through a male gaze
How Readers Rate It
Readability 3.4/5 Average
Pace 3.0/5 Average
Romance 3.7/5 A lot
40 voters
The opening: a Ramadan evening, an Ankara minibus and two very different men
Book pp. 7–46 · about 22% (from the Ramadan evening to Can drawing close to Ayla again). Pages 47–52 are in the spoiler section; the remaining ≈75% is not opened in this review.

The novel begins in the month of Ramadan, in Ulus Square in Ankara, near the time of iftar. The minibus stop is full of people. Ayla wants to light her cigarette, her lighter will not catch, and she asks Can, standing behind her, for a light. This short acquaintance continues: they get on the same minibus, sit side by side and talk about names, jobs and where they live. Can works in a locksmith's shop in Ulus; Ayla sells curtain fabric on the third floor of the Anafartalar market, known for its «moving staircases». Both like İbrahim Tatlıses songs.

Ayla arrives home and joins the family's iftar table. Her mother Zeynep talks about the marriage proposal for her cousin Zehra. In the family the question of when the girl will marry is constantly discussed. Zehra says the suitors will come on the last day of the holiday. Ayla says only «a nice person» about the young man she met at the stop, and does not know his name. In the kitchen the two girls laugh, joke and clear the table.

Can and his workmate Samet work in the locksmith's shop under the master. Samet is thin, moustached, married and a father of two, yet introduces himself as the man «who will write the book of womanising»: he has eight or nine lovers and counts them by name and number. Can limps because of an illness in childhood, lives alone and tries to write a novel. Samet repeatedly tries to find him women, and each time Can either refuses or just sits there like a guest.

One night Samet brings a drunk, unconscious woman to Can's flat and says «I brought you a partridge». Samet leaves; Can does not touch the woman, covers her and sleeps on the sofa. In the morning the woman wakes and tells him «may God ruin you». The next day Samet asks what happened, Can says he did not touch her, and Samet tells him «nothing will come of you». This episode shows the book's basic conflict: Samet sees women as something to be had, while Can says «my heart will not allow it».

At the holiday Can visits Samet's shack in Keçiören. Samet's mother Esma, father Ahmet and wife Kezban are there; everyone treats Can warmly and the children kiss his hand. The contradiction between Samet's family life and his secret life is striking: at home devout and family-minded, outside a different woman every day. Samet tells Can that if his wife asks he should say «we drank at your place».

The main turning point is this: one morning at the stop Can gets off the minibus with Ayla, and as they walk Ayla sees that he limps. Her face changes, she says nothing and goes ahead quickly, not waiting for Can. Can feels abandoned, cannot hold back tears, looks at the statue of Atatürk before the Assembly building and says «I am a Turk, I am honest, but I am not happy», and washes his face at the mosque's fountain.

Then Samet takes him to Sibel's flat. There is a sixteen-year-old, Tuğba, and Samet offers him «the best of goods». Out of shyness Can cannot go to Tuğba's room and does not rise from his seat. Samet raises a racket again, and all the talk turns to teasing Can's shyness. At the same time Ayla tells Zehra she saw Can, that she pities him, and does not hide that she is ashamed.

Days pass. One evening at the stop Ayla herself greets him and says «see you tomorrow». Can begins to come a little earlier each day and wait for her. They sit side by side in the minibus, İbo songs play, Ayla wears a white cardigan and the words «it suits you» please Can. Samet brags about his new blonde girl, while Can quietly thinks about the «taboos», especially his limp: even if he thinks of himself as a «green plane tree», people look at him as a «dry tree».

Reading Experience
  • The novel is built from long monologues and dialogues; Can's inner thoughts on «taboo» are the book's main line of ideas
  • Samet is a lively character: he is built through speech, gesture and boasting
  • The Ankara details (minibus, locksmith's shop, Menekşe passage, Keçiören) are convincing
  • Ayla's indecision between love and friendship and Can's hope are given through long scenes and sometimes repeat
  • The philosophical speeches (love, taboo, sexuality) sometimes slow the story and the characters speak with one voice
Content Warning
The book has several explicit sexual scenes (Samet–Ayşe, Samet–Zeynep, Can–Tuğba) and the description of the sexual act is quite openThe secondary character Samet has sex with a woman unconscious from drink and suggests the same to Can; Can refuses. This can be read as a depiction of sexual violenceSamet tries to seduce a 16-year-old imam's daughter and then gives up out of conscience; the thread does not end in a sexual actDemeaning remarks about women, boasting of womanizing and a prostitution milieu run through the bookA character (Ayla) makes a discriminatory remark about Black people; Can objects to it
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Spoiler
The end of the 26%: the conversation between Samet and Ayşe
⚠️ Pp. 47–52: Samet's side thread is revealed here. Do not open it if you do not want to know how the talk with Ayşe goes.

On Sunday in Keçiören Park Samet tells Can «I have an hour or two's business with Ayşe» and follows a middle-aged woman in a headscarf. Ayşe has left her daughter Semra with her sister and secretly takes him to her flat. In the lift Samet tries to put a hand on her, and Ayşe only embraces him after the door closes.

At home Ayşe makes tea and tells Samet her love for him has ended: six months ago she fell in love, but Samet changed after returning from Istanbul. He has not once told her what he has been through or where he lives, and has not answered when she called his workplace. Samet tries to brush it off with soft words, praise of the tea and «you are blowing it up». This scene shows Samet's view of women for the first time through the other side's eyes.

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