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The Secrets of Eternal Happiness

Cafer Şahintaş
Review by: İdris Muxtarzadə30 September 20261 min read
A memoir and advice book by a businessman born in a village near Trabzon, who grew rich in advertising in the 1980s and went bankrupt in Turkey's 1994 crisis. The author attributes this transformation to a religious turn that began with reading a Turkish translation of the Qur'an, and finds the path to happiness in prayer, fasting, pilgrimage and trust in God. The life story is sincere and at times moving, but most of the book consists of Qur'an and hadith quotations, the author's poems and exhortations; it is weak as literature and as thought.
Who Is This Book For?
Good Fit
  • Readers who enjoy religious motivation and advice literature
  • People who have experienced wealth and bankruptcy and seek spiritual support
  • Readers of plain-language Islamic life guides such as Asiye Türkan's books
Not a Fit
  • Anyone looking for a secular, psychology-based book on happiness
  • Readers expecting a memoir of literary quality
  • Those uncomfortable with strict predestination and depictions of hell
How Readers Rate It
Readability 3.9/5 Easy
Sincerity 3.8/5 High
Depth of thought 2.4/5 Shallow
40 voters
Preface, 'The Child in the Past' and 'And Yours Truly' — a businessman's life story
Read: the preface, 'The Child in the Past' and 'And Yours Truly' (pp. 7–33), the opening of 'The Great Catastrophe' and the 'Final Word' — about 18% of the book.

The preface states the book's worldview plainly: everything a person does has been written in advance by God, and 'however clever a man may be, he can never step outside his destiny'. It is an unseen power that pushes fledglings back into the nest and makes a sleeping baby suddenly cry. The author says every topic, quotation and poem in the book rests on the Qur'an and hadith, 'yet this is not a religious book' — the book's central contradiction, since most of the later chapters are precisely religious preaching.

The strongest part of the book is the autobiography. Born in 1947 in the village of Ayvadere near Araklı, Trabzon, the son of a devout carpenter with seven children, the author recalls that his father wanted him to become a hafiz (someone who memorizes the Qur'an), but a friend's father persuaded him to enrol his son in school. One of the most sincere lines concerns his sisters, who never went to school: 'I still carry that guilt inside me.' When his father fell ill, the family moved in 1960 to Terme near Samsun; the 13-year-old boy worked as a street vendor, was married off at 17 under family pressure, and had two children before his military service.

1980–1993 was the author's 'peak': an advertising firm, luxury homes, cars, trips to Europe, acquaintances in business, politics, the arts and sport. But he lists the price of that life in six points, and this list is the most useful page in the book: no time for family, constant financial strain, a relentless race with competitors, untrustworthy relationships built on self-interest, wasteful spending for show, and drifting away from religious duties. His observation that his wealthy, older acquaintances 'went around with pills in their pockets' is also striking.

When he went bankrupt in the 1994 economic crisis, 'false friends' and some relatives disappeared, and he suffered insomnia and depression. The turning point was a phone call one Ramadan night from an old friend, Turhan: that very night he performed his ablutions, went to the mosque and resumed the five daily prayers. When his television broke, he began reading an eight-volume Turkish translation and commentary of the Qur'an that had sat unopened on his shelves for years, and writes that all his psychological troubles 'healed by themselves in a short time' — he even quit smoking. The testimony is sincere, but readers should bear in mind that depression does not lift this way for everyone and may require professional help.

From here the book shifts from memoir to exhortation: each chapter opens with a few verses or hadiths and continues with commentary, the author's simple rhymed poems and short anecdotes. The language is sincere but repetitive, and the editing is weak. The book should be read as a personal act of 'preaching' born of the author's own experience; readers looking for a universal answer to the 'secrets of happiness' will find only one worldview here.

Reading Experience
  • A sincere life story told in the first person
  • Qur'an, hadith and commentary quotations in every chapter
  • The author's simple rhymed poems ('A Life in a Few Lines', 'The Gathering' and others)
Content Warning
A strong fatalism: every human act is presented as written in advanceA personal claim that depression was cured by worship and Qur'an reading alone — not a substitute for professional helpDepictions of the Last Day and hellfire, harsh language about unbelievers
If You Liked This
Faith Befits a HumanAsiye Türkan

Advice on happiness and life grounded in religious values

Happiness Befits a FamilyAsiye Türkan

Same genre — an Islamic life guide

Paths to Happiness: The Book of LifeAhmet Muhtar Büyükçınar

Paths to happiness from a classic religious-ethical perspective

Spoiler
How does this part end?
⚠️ The turning point: a night in Ramadan

When he goes bankrupt in the 1994 economic crisis, «false friends» and some relatives disappear and the author suffers insomnia and low spirits. The turning point is a call from his old friend Turhan on a night in Ramadan: that night he performs ablutions, goes to the mosque and begins praying five times a day again. When the television breaks, he looks at the eight-volume Qur'an translation and commentary in his library that had not been opened for years.

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