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Traumatized — Identify, Understand, and Cope with PTSD and Emotional Stress

Kati Morton
Review by: İdris Muxtarzadə29 September 20261 min read
The book by Kati Morton, a family therapist known for her mental-health education videos on YouTube, explains trauma to a broad audience in a warm, plain voice: the second chapter, devoted to PTSD, lays out the DSM-5 criteria accessibly and, with its «big T / little t» distinction, gives a name to an experience many will recognise; but, as the author admits, Morton is not a trauma specialist, and the short self-assessment quizzes risk stretching the concept of «trauma» too far.
Who Is This Book For?
Good Fit
  • Readers wanting a first introduction to trauma and PTSD in plain, non-academic language
  • People trying to work out whether what they went through «counts» as trauma, and those close to them
  • Viewers of Kati Morton's videos who enjoy her conversational tone
Not a Fit
  • Those looking for deep clinical or scientific analysis
  • Readers uneasy with the author's personal views (such as her objection to the DSM) being presented alongside consensus
  • Anyone expecting a step-by-step programme that replaces therapy
How Readers Rate It
Practical value 3.4/5 Average
Scientific basis 2.9/5 Average
Readability 4.2/5 Easy
36 voters
Chapter two — «Am I Traumatized? PTSD and What You Need to Know»
The Author's Note, Introduction and Chapter Two (pp. 11–15 and 35–47 of the Turkish edition) were read in full and analysed.

In the introduction Morton says plainly why she wrote the book: she has been making online content for over nine years, and not a single day has passed without someone writing to ask whether what they experienced «counts» as trauma. In her view, the knowledge needed to understand PTSD should not be available only to those who can afford a specialist. There is also a notable admission: «I don't consider myself a trauma expert» — her career was built on eating disorders and self-harm, and she came to trauma while looking for the roots of her patients' problems.

Chapter two opens with the history of PTSD: the symptoms called «shell shock» in the First World War, the British army commissioning psychologist Charles Myers to investigate, and rapid-intervention units close to the front. The author then draws on Bessel van der Kolk's «The Body Keeps the Score» to show that trauma is not only a soldiers' problem: statistics such as one in five Americans having been sexually molested as a child, and a quarter of children being beaten by their parents hard enough to leave a mark, give the chapter a heavy backdrop.

At the centre of the chapter are the DSM-5 criteria for PTSD: directly experiencing a traumatic event, witnessing it happen to others, learning that it happened to someone close, or — like first responders and police officers — being repeatedly exposed to its aversive details. Morton unpacks the symptom clusters one by one: intrusive memories and nightmares (her description of flashbacks as «flipping through a photo album» is apt), avoidance, trauma-related memory loss and negative thinking, arousal reactions, and dissociation (depersonalisation and derealisation). The language is plain and the explanations are brought to life with stories from patients and viewers.

This is also where the most contentious point lies. The DSM does not count exposure through electronic media, television or pictures (unless work-related); Morton writes that she «strongly disagrees» and justifies this by how social media has changed since 2013. It fits the thesis of chapter one that «social media is our shared trauma», but it is a personal stance rather than a scientific argument, and readers should take it as such.

The most useful part of the chapter is the distinction between «big T» and «little t» traumas. The author quotes her colleague, trauma specialist Dr Alexa Altman: big T — life-threatening events such as a serious crash, disaster or assault, a «tsunami»; little t — events that exceed one's coping capacity, such as job loss, divorce or chronic illness, «big waves» that keep coming one after another. The story of Morton's friend, who had a happy childhood yet suddenly began to experience dissociation — a move, the deaths of both grandmothers in quick succession and the end of a long relationship — illustrates the idea powerfully.

Critical notes: the quiz at the end of the chapter («have you experienced stressful events in the last six months to a year?», «have there been changes in your work situation?») is so broad that almost any adult would answer «yes» to several questions; treating more than one «yes» as a sign of little-t trauma risks stretching the concept of trauma to cover everyday stress. The book is not academic — references are few and some are popular sources. The Turkish translation reads smoothly, though some sentences are muddled (for instance, the claim that the new DSM edition was «published on social media in 2013»). Even so, the chapter is a warm and accessible guide for readers meeting PTSD for the first time, and it stays responsible by repeatedly recommending professional help.

Reading Experience
  • A conversational tone enlivened by stories from patients, viewers and friends
  • A «Key Ideas» list at the end of each chapter
  • Self-assessment quizzes and footnoted references
Content Warning
Statistics on child abuse and domestic violenceReferences to self-harm and traumatic eventsShort quizzes that carry a risk of self-diagnosis
If You Liked This
The Body Keeps the ScoreBessel van der Kolk

The foundational book on trauma and the body that Morton herself draws on

The Complex PTSD WorkbookArielle Schwartz

A more structured workbook on complex PTSD rooted in childhood trauma — reviewed on our site

Trauma and the SoulDonald Kalsched

A deeper, psychoanalytic view of early trauma — reviewed on our site

Spoiler
How does this part end?
⚠️ «Big T» and «small t» trauma

The most useful part of the chapter is the distinction between «big T» and «small t» traumas. The author quotes her colleague Alexa Altman's explanation: big T — life-threatening events such as a severe accident, disaster or assault, a «tsunami»; small t — events that exceed one's coping capacity, such as job loss, divorce or chronic illness, «big waves» that come one after another.

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