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The Art of Being Happy

In English: The Art of Being Happy (Mutlu Olma Sanatı)
Arthur Schopenhauer
Review by: Rafel Əlizadə09 October 20261 min read
A short collection of «rules of life» by Arthur Schopenhauer, saying that perfect happiness is impossible but that living with less suffering can be learned. In the part read its strongest side is the harsh, clear and unexpectedly everyday judgements: avoiding envy, knowing yourself, not imitating another's character. Its weak side is the fragmentary structure of the book, the many classical quotations and the 19th-century style that is heavy for a modern reader.
Who Is This Book For?
Good Fit
  • Readers who want a short, dense and practical introduction to philosophy
  • Anyone who wants to read a cool-headed view of happiness, envy and self-knowledge
  • Fans of small-format philosophy books such as Can Klasik
Not a Fit
  • Readers looking for motivation, «positive thinking» and optimistic advice: the tone is pessimistic and defines happiness as the absence of pain
  • Anyone who wants exercises to apply at once and a step-by-step plan: the book is a collection of aphorisms and judgements
  • Readers who want a plain text without quotations or heavy notes: the pages carry Greek and Latin quotations and many comments
How Readers Rate It
Readability 3.4/5 Average
Depth 4.0/5 Deep
Practical advice 3.2/5 Average
40 voters
The «Eudaemonology» introduction and Rules of Life Nos. 1–3
Read: the introduction «The Art of Being Happy, or Eudaemonology» and Rules of Life No. 1, No. 2 and No. 3 (approx. pp. 9–19) — about 30% of the book.

In the introduction Schopenhauer treats «wisdom of life» as almost synonymous with eudaimonia and expects of it neither Stoic renunciation nor Machiavellianism: the first is too hard for the ordinary person, the second is at the expense of others' happiness and the ordinary person lacks the intelligence it requires. Eudaimonia lies between the two — teaching how to live with as little suffering as possible, without great renunciation. The basic thesis: absolute happiness is impossible, only a state «of relatively less pain» can be expected; but understanding the subject can help us reach the happiness life permits.

The author lists the main elements of happiness: first a cheerful temperament, second bodily health, third inner peace, and fourth, to a small degree, external things (Epicurus's grouping «natural and necessary / natural and not necessary / neither natural nor necessary»). The rules of life will be divided into two groups: conduct towards ourselves and conduct towards others. Schopenhauer himself admits that it will be easier to write these rules down «at random» first and then gather them under headings — the fragmentary character of the book comes from here.

Rule No. 1 — «We were all born in Arcadia»: we come into the world with expectations of happiness and pleasure and keep this foolish hope until fate shows us that everything (even our arms, our nose) belongs to it. Experience teaches us that happiness and pleasure are an illusion shown from afar, while pain and suffering are real. So the wise man «pursues not what is pleasant but what is free of pain»; the best thing in life is a painless, quiet, tolerable existence, and one must not spoil it with longing for imaginary pleasures or fear of a future in fate's hands. Rule No. 2 is short: avoid envy; «nothing is so implacable and merciless as envy, yet we constantly try to arouse it». With quotations from Seneca: «you will never be happy while a happier man torments you».

Rule No. 3, «Acquired character», is the widest part. After Kant's «empirical and intelligible character», a third character gained only through life experience. Until a person knows what he wants and what he can do, «like children at a fair he grabs at everything», draws zigzags and reaches nothing. Schopenhauer says: only he who chooses what suits him alone and renounces everything else shows character; «as fish are at ease in water, birds in air, the mole under the earth», each person is at ease only in his own atmosphere. To imitate another's qualities is «far more humiliating than wearing another's clothes». The style is harsh, dense and aphoristic; every sentence refers to a classical source (Seneca, Aristotle, Homer) and demands attention from the reader.

Reading Experience
  • The fragmentary «rules» format allows each rule to be read separately
  • Aphoristic style: short sentences and sudden similes (the caged elephant, the fish in water)
  • Greek and Latin quotations (Aristotle, Seneca, Sophocles, Ovid) give the text a philosophical frame
  • The author openly states his incompleteness: he intends to write the rules at random first and order them afterwards
Content Warning
Schopenhauer's pessimistic outlook (happiness is an illusion) may seem harsh to a readerThe text expects familiarity with classical philosophical concepts (empirical and intelligible character, will)The book is no substitute for psychological help
If You Liked This
Aphorismen zur Lebensweisheit (The Wisdom of Life)Arthur Schopenhauer

The same author's broader collection on the wisdom of life

MeditationsMarcus Aurelius

The Stoics' personal notes on inner peace

The Consolations of PhilosophyAlain de Botton

A modern book showing how philosophy helps with everyday suffering

Spoiler
What is the conclusion of rule 3?
⚠️ «Know yourself and choose only what suits you».

At the end of rule No. 3 Schopenhauer concludes: «acquired character» is knowing one's own strong and weak sides clearly. After that a person lives by what he can do, not by what he shows; he develops his strengths, avoids work in which his talent is small, and so is not disappointed and seldom experiences the greatest mental pain, «being reminded of one's weakness». Grasping unchanging necessity is the greatest consolation: «we are like a caged elephant that struggles in terror for days and then suddenly stretches its neck to the yoke». He ties it up with Ovid's lines «he is the best liberator of his soul who has broken the chains that gall his breast and has grieved once for all».

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